Valedictorian: Cody Melcher

Salutatorian: Alexandra Comly

The following speeches were given on Sunday May 27, 2007 @ The Houston Marriott Westchase Hotel. Class of 2007 Graduation Ceremonies.

Valedictorian Speech

by Cody Melcher '07

Good evening Faculty, Family, Friends, Friends of Family, Family of Friends, Friends of Faculty, Family of Faculty, Faculty of Friends, Friends of Friends, and Friends of Friends of Faculty, tonight, it’s finally here, graduation night. I’m going to do my best to avoid overused and tedious metaphors, for they are LIKE an ocean that spills over the horizon where there is no land in sight. See, that’s a simile. Similes are ok. Seniors, I mean the students, not the citizens, you’re moving on continuing on the journey of your life, and this is one of the most important parts, life after high school.

This is the point in our lives to still have fun, as I’m VERY sure all of you will have no problem doing, but also get a little serious about our futures. We’re not supposed to know now, and we won’t even know then, but as I think it goes, it’s not the destination, but the journey. As David Bowie said, You can neither win nor lose if you don’t even run the race. What’s important, is that your future is nigh, which means it’s near. However, this is the only sappy advice that I’ll give you during this melancholy verbiage. When you’re wherever you are, remember, normal is a relative term. What you may consider normal, someone might consider weird, and vice-versa. Dr. Seuss said that you should be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Go somewhere different and do something different. The future will be difficult, but if you can live through me talking for this long, you’ll survive.

As I stand here, I have to feel the pressure to thank those that have helped me get to this podium, since they’re all staring at me. First, and foremost, my family. Without the creation of, and help through, all of the insanity of my life, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I’m still trying to decide if that’s a good thing, or not. They’ve always been there, well, not at that table since this is a one night thing, but they’re still a core to my essential being. Secondly, my teachers. All of the teachers at the school, not just the ones that have taught me, have been a great help and inspiration to me. I came to the school thinking I was pretty mature already, and learned that I still had a lot of growing up to do, and still have a lot to go. E.E. Cummings said something that sticks with me at this point, It takes a lot of courage to grow up and become who you really are, and I thank all of you that helped me grow up to discover who I really am, and I only hope that the journey continues as well as it already has.

Well, this seems like a good time to start wrapping up before Maggie bangs the gong and I get whisked away. Ask your parents about that joke. So, to all of you, good luck and remember that Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So, throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. And, in case the sailing references weren’t enough of a clue, that was Mark Twain. Anyway, goodnight, good luck, and thank all of you. You have been great to me these four years of my long, confusing life, and fantastic the minutes of this long, confusing speech.

Thank you all, goodnight, and have a pleasant tomorrow. Only pleasant, nothing too grand.

Salutatorian Speech:

by Alexandra Comly '07

     I have been at ASA for 4 years and many times, I feel like I took the school and the people for granted. I came to ASA four years ago, a trembling wreck, and most of the time I was so busy wishing that high school was over and done with, that I never took the time to appreciate the people around me. I cannot begin to thank the teachers for putting up with me; you have all been an inspiration to me. It feels like just yesterday that I was a “no good, rotten freshman”. And now I’m graduating and I’m left wondering where the time went.

The most inspirational people in my life are my family members; without them, I would have lost my ambition and drive to succeed. My mom has always kept me on my feet about my grades; checking edline whenever she got a chance, and then reporting it immediately to me. My dad and my sister have also been there for me with my studies; they made a stronger person by always pushing me to the limit. I would also like to mention my grandmother; with out her constant donations to my academic endeavors, I would never have been able to attend ASA. Her love and kindness have opened many doors for me, and for that, I will always be thankful. My family has always been and will always be the root of my existence and the most influential people in my life.

I would like to quickly mention one important detail about our senior class; besides the fact that we are the best, we have 3 original freshman: Zach Fein, Cody Melcher, and of course, me. We have always backed each other up through all of the drama that has occurred over the past 4 years.

I sat at my desk the other night, wondering just what I was supposed to write about our senior class; I could say that we are unique, that would be appropriate, I could say we are interesting, eccentric, crazy, or I could just say we are perfect. It might seem cliques-ish, but the truth is our senior class is perfect.

I will leave you with a classic Robert Frost, one of my favorite poets: “I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-- I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.”

Do what you want to do, and that choice will always lead you in the right direction. This is your life, your future, and a new experience, so go a little crazy, make mistakes, but never regret, move to a new chapter, but never forget the past and most importantly, do what you love and live as if this is all there is. I am truly proud of everyone and I wish all of you the best of luck in your future endeavors! WE DID IT! CHUCK UP THE DUECE! I won’t actually say that, unless it’s alright!! haha

Valedictorian: Amara Fedke

Salutatorian:

The following speeches were given on Sunday, June 4, 2006 @ The Warwick Hotel. Class of 2006 Graduation Ceremonies.

Valedictorian Speech

by Amara Fedke '06

I realize that this speech is usually about the FUTURE and how we're supposed to go foward into it without doubt or worry. But I can't lecture you on unshaken confidence because i am terrified to leave Alexander Smith Academy. There are days when i want to stay at ASAfor the rest of my life. Can't you see it, me at 30 and Mrs. Rameau still telling to up the language in my papers?

            Then it occurs to me, I am not going to miss ASA, I am going to miss the people. I am going to miss Jaz messing with my hair in spanish. I am going to miss being lost in physics, nodding and pretending to know what Mrs. Kennedy is talking about. And Colin and Mrs. Rameau's epic object throwing, are you kidding me? Where else could i have learned pens can Ricochet?

            I have a confession to make. the first day i came to ASA, it scared the living daylights out of me, because it was so diffrent than the school i came from. It was in aa freezing office building, Students were calling teachers by their first name, and one kid got within an inch of another kids face and was screaming at him. I did the only thing i could; I went home and didn't come back for three months. When i did return, I learned the important things about ASA. That it really is a family, and that the teachers really care about you, and do their best to make sure you succeed. Monique is like a second mother, she must have received a million calls from my dad when i started driving.When i had my infamous seizure Dave was right in my face when i came to, calling my name; and Maggie was in the Ambulance with me and stayed for hours in the hospital with my mom. I have discussed a current event every week for the past two years with Mrs. Johnson, and spent hours talking politics with Ellen in spanish class. ASA has really changed me for the better. I have grown up here and i will always remember it with love.

            Now I know I wouldn't be here in front of you today is it weren't for my family. As corny as it sounds, it's true. My mom has always been an optimist, the world could be ending and she'd would still say, "Well, no more homework."; she is my confidant and my best friend. My dad is like a big kid, our Sunday movie ritual has always calmed me down, and as cheesy as his jokes are, they still put a smile on my face. and my brothers have always kept me grounded. If my head gets a little to big, whether it be about losing a couple of pounds or being Valedictorian, they're quick to say "Didn't you just aeat a piece of cheesecake?" or "yeah, you're Valedictorian, but of how many?" So thank you Mom, Dad, Ian, and Mainey.

            I say all this to say that i didn't want this speec to be about the our future and becoming adults because ... well it's scary. I know becoming an adult is inevitable and that one day you realize, "O man thats something my mom would say", but i don't want this class to lose what makes them, them. Just because Houston has to grow up, it doesn't mean he still can't be the loud mouth coach we saw on the softball field. and Colin should maintain his crazy sense of humor or his comptetiveness, even though i'll kick his butt in any game of charades. Class of 2006, Maintain your goofiness, maintain your heart. I will leave you with a quote not from Shakespear, and not from Robert Frost, but Rascal Flats, a country singer." my wish for you is that you're life becomes all that you want it to. You're dreams stay big, your worries stay small. You nev3er need to carry more than you can hold. And while your out there gettin where your gettin to, I hope you know somebody loves you and wants the same things too. This is my wish for you", Class of 2006.

Valedictorian: Amanda Comly

Salutatorian: Nicole Ferguson

The following speeches were given on Sunday, June 5, 2005 @ The Warwick Hotel. Class of 2005 Graduation Ceremonies.

Valedictorian Speech

by Amanda Comly '05

It’s crazy to think that 4 years have past since I was first welcomed by a shock of frigid air into the first floor of that business building, which is Alexander Smith Academy. Strangely enough, I kept walking through that door to find the same sub-zero temperatures greet me every year. It’s surprising that I didn’t get frostbite or grow hairy. Back then; I thought this moment would never come. I’d never survive freshman year, never learn Biology, and never get anything to print off the library computers. This school would soon become my second home for many reasons. Of course, new people would be added to the mix, and others would leave the scene, but for the moment I want to focus on the things about my life and ASA that have remained constant and never failed me. I discovered my true passion at age 3, as most of you know, in horses. My dreams and goals from that day forward lay solely in the equestrian sports that have consumed almost every minute of my existence outside of school. I learned how to be competitive, learned dedication, and sportsmanship, all things that helped shape my soul and provided the backbone for the person you see today. Without this, without show jumping, I could never have made it through school. At the root of all this, fueling and supporting my riding endeavors at every stage, every peak and every depression, she was there. When opportunity knocked, she was the one who opened all the doors and invited it in for me. She took her job as Ed-line expert of the house seriously. I don’t think I ever knew my test grades before she had found out from Ed-line. She is my mentor, my mother, and my friend. I have never been at a loss of love or care from my family, considering that I owe my entire education and equestrian expenses to the generosity of my grandmother in Germany, who I may not be able to see in person every day or even every year, but who watches over me from a distance. This brings me to the people I have seen everyday… The people who taught me everything from writing essays to unscrambling calculus equations. Some guided me in the production of a movie about Spanish cross-dressers, while others showed me the importance of fumigating a room with Lysol; some even fueled my addiction for hot chocolate. These are the people who have watched me grow from a pathetic lousy freshman, to an obnoxious senior, the people who have taken my hand and walked me through 4 years of high school, and 4 years of my life. These amazing people are those I call my teachers and counselors. My teachers have seen me cry a little, and smile a lot. They’ve seen me sit in the library for hours at a time, wondering when I’d ever leave. Well it’s time; Time to finally leave…Time to live another life, because I’ve spent too much time on this one, as Henry David Thoreau would say. Time for a change, a graduation and move away from our familiar houses, and home cooked meals. It’s time for us all to live a different life, wear down another path in the wood, and enjoy the vie w from a different vantage point on the vessel… Farewell ASA & Good luck class of 2005

Salutatorian: Nicole Ferguson '05

Valedictorian: Elena Capelson

Salutatorian: Michael Nann
 

The following speeches were given on Sunday June 6, 2004 @ The Warwick Hotel. Class of 2004 Graduation Ceremonies.

Valedictorian Speech

by Elena Capelson '04

Welcome Class of 2004-I'm happy we can all join here today to share this event together.  And thank you to the faculty and all of our loved ones who have come to support us.

In preparing this speech, I had no idea what to do to add a personal touch. I thought about telling a poem, singing a song, and even doing a little dance number too, in order to add a little variety to the common graduation speech we all know and love but I decided to save myself that embarrassment.  And I'm sure you've all heard the common clichés people use when giving graduation speeches.  This is just the beginning, two roads diverged in a wood, Today is the first day of the rest of your life, etc, etc.  Although I tried to stay away from these cliché's, I found it quite difficult, because in reality, this situation breaks down to a cliché, I mean come on it is high school graduation, so all I can do is say what's in my heart,  express what I am feeling at this time and assume you are all experiencing the same. And if you're not, since you're stuck with me giving this speech, you're just going have to bear with me for the next five minutes.  There's a sense of great relief about it all. We are finishing high school, finally escaping from everything tying us down, getting to be free, and on our own in the world.  I couldn't be happier about this.  But at the same time I feel a sense of melancholy knowing that this might be the last time I see some of these people all together.  But then I remember that even though we all might be separating and moving on, I know that everyone here will be out in the world doing their own thing to make them happy.  I know everyone here will give it their all in whatever they do and find out who they are in the process.  We will be moving on to greater things, and this replaces my melancholy with great optimism for us all.

I'm going to miss everyone here when we all leave in a month.  I'm going to miss the ridiculous arguments we have in class ranging from politics to the Janet Jackson scandal.  I'm going to miss Mrs. Rameau's spunkiness, Maggie's sense of humor, and Mrs. Kennedy's awesome sense of mellowness, not to mention a unique character like Dave Arnold.  I'm definitely going to miss having the option of taking an in class absence.  I'm sure we all have things we will miss about ASA, but maybe we don't realize them all just yet.

So what does the rest of our life hold for us?  Do all the events in our lives happen by pure chance or is there a certain path already laid out for us that we can't see. Like, is there a certain lesson to be learned why I failed to get accepted to a certain Berkeley college or was it pure chance that it didn't happen?  By the way, many fellow ASA people said it's "too liberal for a Texan anyways", so thank you for your compassion.  The bottom line is that it really doesn't matter what controls our future, whether is a roll of the dice or some kind of "higher power" guiding us all.  Because in the end, by making the decisions we make through life, we are going to end up in the same place.  Yes, some paths can get you richer or more famous, but it doesn't matter because in the end you are still going to FEEL THE SAME about yourself and your life.  As long as you stay true to yourself, you can do no wrong with whatever life throws you.  Stay true to yourself, I guess I did have to use a cliché in my speech after all, but that one definitely makes sense.
In conclusion, As a fan of simplifying things, I would like to quote Dr. Seuss.
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
You're on your own.
And you know what you know.
You are the guy who'll decide where to go.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.  ~Dr. Seuss

CONGRATULATIONS CLASS OF 2004!

Salutatorian Speech:

by Michael Nann '04

     As Tom Hanks stated in Forest Gump, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get.”  This is how life as been for me.  These last three years have brought me an assortment of flavors.  Coming from the Loomis Chaffee Prep School in Connecticut where the average day was composed of a normal school day, six hours of homework, three hours of sports, and a grueling rubber band civil war with my roommate during study hours each night, to me there had to be something more in life than this rigorous, undesirable routine.  I did not desire a degree from Harvard, to be the next Wayne Gretsky, or the best rubber band shooter out of the South.  I had qualified to benefit from an experience many never will be given as well as developed new and great friendships and a painful GPA.  I realized that once again the box of chocolates was open and ready for me to try a new kind.

                                 This time I picked the right chocolate, long lasting, savory and sweeter than past kinds.  This piece brought me to this school - the Alexander-Smith Academy .  Here I realized the true value of family, relationships, and so much more.  I have developed a more diverse lifestyle.  ASA encouraged me to draw from my idol, my father, while evolving skills learned from him into my own unique character.  I, after six months at this school, realized who I am and what I desire from life.  Mr. Arnold, along with the rest of the administration and faculty, encouraged me to reach my goals while making sure I truly desired and was prepared to achieve them. He as well has provided an environment in which individuals can be just that, an individual, expressing their thoughts, participating in extracurricular activities and participating in a killer ping pong tournament to symbolize the school year’s end.  I personally owe this school more than words can say.  I love this place because I am the Alexander- Smith Academy .

                                 With the foundation laid for me here, I am striving for glory which is achieved when one reaches their goals and is recognized for them.  ASA has laid the foundation for all of us to achieve this glory.  All of you, as graduated students, have been blessed in many ways.  This school will always be your school.  No lunch, athletics, and such few students makes our school one of a kind, and as adults you should be proud when telling your children that you were educated at the Alexander-Smith Academy.

Education has allowed all my relationships to grow and my thanks are extended to Mr. Arnold, for accepting me, and to all of you who have contributed to my life.  Maggie – for all of your efforts on the 16 college applications and for the encouragement and guidance.  My family  - you bring me a smile and I love you.  Stephen and Jacquelyn, both of you, I had to make an effort to learn to spell your names but you are my best friends and will always hold a place in my heart.  Good Luck everyone in all your endeavors. I wish you success and happiness, and lastly never forget, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough trouble of its own.” (Mathew 6:34).

Valedictorian: Alexis Breeding

Salutatorian: Jenny Spuhler
 

The following speeches were given at Alexander-Smith Academy's Class of 2003 Graduation Ceremonies.

Valedictorian Speech

by Alexis Breeding '03

     I’ve been going to ASA for three long pampered years.  After braving public schools for ten years, I know the feeling of being just a number. Moving on from the comfortable corridor’s of cozy ASA will be a great challenge for all of us to face.  In these past few weeks, as I contemplated the words to express my feelings for this occasion, I have realized how much I greatly value my time spent here.  The luxuries that ASA accommodates for its students have become common place, and thus, I have taken them for granted.  The prospect of college intimidates me only when I realize that there will be no Maggie twenty feet away willing to listen to my four-letter word complaints, and no Pam to tell me to suck it up. 

     The unique high school experience that we have had the priviledge of receiving can be attributed to the tireless administrators and teachers found only at ASA.  This special team of mentors have empowered us with not only a vast labyrinth of knowledge, but an appreciation of learning.  Despite even the latest epidemic of Senioritis, the ASA faculty have reached a new level of tolerance with their enduring patience.

     To my fellow graduates, it’s been a long journey filled with many obstacles that has led us here today.  The trials and tribulations that we have pulled through, like that one time we ran out of the hot chocolate mix with the little marshmallows, has been quite phenomenal.  But, please keep in mind, that what didn’t kill us, made us much stronger.  I hope that you too can look upon your high school career spent at ASA and recall fond memories.

     To my family and friends , I would like to extend my deepest gratitude and appreciation.  Your dedication and support has been priceless in aiding me throughout my high school career.  I could have never pulled through the endless nights of studying without your never-ending support.

     I leave you now with words of advice from Henry David Thoreau.  “ Go confidently in the direction of dreams!  Live the life you have imagined.  As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.”

Thank you.                                                    

Salutatorian Speech:

by Jenny Spuhler

     Welcome Class of 2003.  So far, it has been a long and successful journey for all of us.  We are now closing this chapter in our lives and preparing for an exciting new one.

 “Life is a path with several turns that often lead us astray

But life has its little twists that keep us going the right way

Life is about experiencing the unknown

And discovering that there is always more to live for

Life is intertwined with happiness and pain

But it will always be the darkest just before the dawn.” –Jenny Spuhler

     Life is a series of new beginnings. We proceed through each stage of life focused on one main goal, making it to the next step. For whatever reason, life has chosen to lead each one of us to this wonderful institution known as Alexander Smith Academy.

 Michelangelo reminds us that: "the greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim was too high and we missed it, but that it was too low and we reached it." 

      As graduates, we are at a new starting line as equals looking toward an almost limitless future in the greatest nation that the world has ever known.  Popularity, personalities, and discrepancies can all be left behind for this new beginning. Many opportunities await us as we give up the past to prepare for the future. All of us here today have something to offer to the world. By creating new ideas, we will take on the world instead of letting the world overtake us.

 "For every person who climbs the ladder of success, there are a dozen waiting for the elevator." Anonymous

      ASA has prepared us to be among those who will achieve success in today’s competitive world. We owe our most sincere gratitude to all the superb educators and mentors who have helped shape our lives and tolerated us each day during our high school experience. You have inspired each of us to become the person we are today.

      We now make our way into the future, maturing into young adults. As we leave adolescence behind, we are entering our brave new world of independence, but hopefully not from our parents’ checkbook. As we proceed toward the next stage of life, we go well prepared by our ASA experience.

 Congratulations Class of 2003!

Valedictorian: Alix Garrison

Co-Salutatorian: Vanessa Lorenz
Co-Salutatorian: Ashley Kesee

The following speeches were given at Alexander-Smith Academy's Class of 2002 Graduation Ceremonies held at the Warwick Hotel on June 2, 2002.

Valedictorian Speech                                                            by Alix Garrison '02

Welcome Family, Friends, Faculty… Welcome graduating class of 2002. Congratulations. Thank you for giving me the privilege of addressing you at such an important part of your life. It is a great honor. Thank you. 

I want to share two things with you that are very important to me. The first, a revelation, came to me like many of the things in life, when I least expected it. And it is this -- to regret nothing. 

I came across this revelation late one night sophomore year, as I was procrastinating something, I'm sure, flipping through the many cable channels. After scanning the guide and find nothing of interest I turned to VH1. There was a special on Madonna, and I don’t remember anything else about the show except one thing she said in an interview. She was asked that after looking back at her most interesting life whether she regretted doing anything. Her reply was a simple…. "no."  She said she didn't regret anything because everything she has done has made her the person she is today. I thought that was incredible, after all of her experiences and personalities she had created for herself - whether nasty, fashionably insane…. - she did not regret a single one. She was proud of who she had become and on TV she looked genuinely happy with herself. She was shining in front of the millions of people and reporters who have scrutinized her life for the last 20 years. 

Madonna made me think about all the things that I have regretted and it, frankly, made me feel foolish. I realized then that nothing good comes out of worrying about things that cannot be changed or corrected. One can't look back. I remember a time when I used to dwell on the "what -would be life be like" questions.  What would my life be like if I had only done things differently? What would my life be like if I had chosen not to go off to boarding school? And for that matter, what would my life be like if I had not chosen to leave after six weeks? When I thought about these questions, I felt frustrated and discouraged, and I stuck on a path of indecision. Regret had made me paralyzed. Which path should I have chosen, which path should I choose now, which path will I choose? 

But now with my new philosophy of "no regrets" and a newfound respect for Madonna, these questions were irrelevant. I made those decisions and I can't change the way things happened. Today when I look back on my experiences I would not change any for the world. Everything I have gone through in high school; friendships, the fights, the stress, the laziness, the loss, the triumph and all the confusion has made me the person I am today, and I'm thankful for all of it…. every single minute of it. 

The second thing I discovered is that to succeed you first need to try. I began to feel that I might be able to do very well at ASA, my sophomore year, Dave challenged me. He told me I could be standing up here today as Valedictorian if I were willing to work for it. I had no idea this was a possibility for me, but I accepted the challenge. No more indecision.  I was committed. I worked hard, but I felt so much better. A new path had been taken. 

It goes without saying, I am especially thankful for Alexander-Smith Academy. Student-friendly, comfortable, supportive, individualistic all describe this well kept secret that I have had the pleasure of calling my second home for the last four years. I think the greatest thing about ASA is that everyone is allowed to be themselves, no judging, no conforming, just individual. ASA would not be what it is without the dedication and enthusiasm the teachers and faculty have shown us. All of you have illustrated to us with your words and actions that you really do care, and we thank you for that. Students can be so lucky to find one teacher with these qualities. We have found an entire team of inspiring educators who have led us to this day. 

To my fellow graduates, I hope your experience at ASA has made as big a difference in your life as it has in mine. I hope that you too can leave any regrets or what ifs behind you-as-you take the road to responsibility. I hope you make the most of the opportunities awaiting you at the college or university you have chosen. I wish you all well in life after ASA and hope to see you again in the future. 

I want to leave you now with a quote by Thomas Hughes.  "We all have to learn, in one way or another, that neither men nor [women] get second chances in the world. We all get new chances till the end of our lives, but not second chances in the same set of circumstances; and the great difference between one person and another is, how he takes hold of and uses his first chance, and how he takes his fall if it is scored against him." 

Class of 2002…. you've done well with your first chances and I trust you will be prepared to tackle your new chances in the path on the road ahead. Good luck and Congratulations. 

Co-Salutatorian Speech                                                   by Vanessa Lorenz '02                                                      

This is a very special time for us seniors. We are about to embark on a journey of discovery and adventure. We will learn new things and acquire new freedom. However, I now want to speak to those of you following us. 

While in Brazil, my brother and I attended the American school in Salvador. My last year there, I transferred to a Brazilian private school. The curriculum was new to me, and I became a bit of a curiosity to my fellow students. They called me "Americana."  The following year I returned to the American curriculum, but this time in a boarding school in California, and eventually Alexander-Smith Academy. I am now labeled "Brazil."  Far from ever taking offense, I considered this something that made me unique. Each and every one of us is unique. 

To one degree or another, we are all afraid of not being accepted by our peers, and may be tempted to conform too easily for fear of rejection. Being part of a group or clique becomes so important that we sometimes hide our uniqueness for acceptance. By doing that, we may in fact achieve the opposite. Being unique and not attempting to hide it may be the best strategy, not only for acceptance, but also for a good self image. Our diversity, together with trust and friendship is a benefit to us all. We learn to see the same things from a different perspective, gain knowledge about each other and foster greater understanding. We have people from different places and different backgrounds; we have those who love music or fashion, sports and many other things. With team spirit and a common goal, we are strong. 

As we enter the world of universities, we will be exposed to much larger groups of people, and of course, more diversity. We need not be afraid of that. We can look forward to a rewarding experience if we are willing to accept and respect our differences. 

This we learned right here at Alexander Smith Academy, where I have made very good friends. I wish you all the same.

Valedictorian Speech                                                       by Trey Melcher Brandenberger ’01

Good evening! 

I want to begin tonight by welcoming each and everyone of you to the Alexander-Smith Academy Class of 2001Graduation Banquet. As I scan the room tonight, I can see many friends, relatives, dates, and other individuals who have joined us this evening to celebrate the accomplishments of our graduating seniors. To these men, women, and siblings I extend an extra warm welcome because you are the ones who deserve special recognition and accolades. You special people have guided us down the road of adolescence through the winding, often diverging trail of our teen years into what will be our future as college students and the next generation of politicians, doctors, businessmen and women, teachers, lawyers, engineers and broadcasters. I know that I could not possibly stand here tonight as your valedictorian or even as a high school graduate if it were not for the undying, compassionate, and unrelenting support of my friends, family and teachers. So, let me speak for my fellow colleagues by personally congratulating you and expressing our immense appreciation for attending this momentous event of our lives. This event, twelve years in the making, is your celebration as well!

When I first interviewed at ASA four years ago I was a worn out, frustrated Kinkaid freshman who had lost the desire and quest for knowledge. I remember the jovial and friendly spirit of ASA’s greatest assest, President David Arnold who welcomed me into his world which would become my home away from home for the three years that followed. A multitude of quotes from the some of the greatest thinkers and minds the literary world ever known come to mind right now, but rather than quote one of these constructive minds, I would like to repeat a phrase from ASA’s wonderful, bearded pioneer- a phrase which impacted me immensely those four years ago and still remains an integral part of my philosophy today, “Oppression breeds rebellion.” Coming from an oppressive situation these few words from President Arnold gave me new hope that I found a school where I would be free to learn without limits. From the moment I began my tenure at ASA my sophomore year, I have felt the presence of this mind set throughout all facets of this school. The nurturing and encouraging classroom atmosphere restored my desire to scholastically achieve. I found within myself my own personal motivation to succeed. Many of my teachers can tell you of times I’ve argued my case with the aspiration of raising my test score one or two points. Not only my teachers had to endure my drive for perfection, but also many of them have graciously put up with my ultraconservative views and belief that the fall of modern society is due to the present economic advisors who have allowed the ideas of Reaganomics to fall by the wayside. Now, I ask you where else could I have found the freedom to express myself in such profound way without fear of being repremanded for my beliefs. I have laughed with, whined to, and been inspired by my teachers at Alexander-Smith Academy. In the words of William Arthur Ward, “ The mediocre teacher tells, the good teacher explains, the superior teacher demonstrates, the great teacher inspires.” I salute the teachers who have inspired me and the rest of the  Class of 2001. 

Thank you!

Salutatorian Speech                                                         by Karyssa Ancellotti ’01

Good Afternoon,

fellow graduates, teachers, and parents. Many of you are probably telling yourself, “okay, I am finished with high school, but I have no idea what I want to do next or in the future.” Do not worry you are probably not alone and many others feel the same. Not everyone graduating from high school has a clear path for the future, but I know we can come to a decision because ASA, our high school, has prepared us to be individual thinkers and guided us to make individual decisions for our future. Now, as graduates of this high school, it is time to say goodbye to the sheltered days of childhood and blossom into full-blown adults by making the biggest and most complicated decision of our lives: future career prospects. As Buddha said, “your work is to discover your world and then with all of your heart, give ourself to it.” For most of us, our next step is college which is a time to continue our education and do a bit of soul-searching to discover who we are and where we fit with the rest of society. We will have to search for and find our own path, which may not be easy. As Polonius said in Shakespeare’s             HAMELT, “to thine ownself be true.” While you are contemplating future endeavors, remember to be true to yourself; don’t let others inappropriately influence your decisions because you will forever wonder if following your own mind and heart could have made you happier and more personally successful. 

This lesson came from me when I was younger I hated gymnastics and had no desire to participate, yet I remained in the sport despite the unhappiness that ensued. I spent hours at the gym working hard to keep my coaches happy. I began contemplating whether or not I could remain in the sport, and my supportive parents did everything in their power to aid me in my decision. Despite my fear of change, I switched to a new gym where I learned that I was not to practice for the coaches or work to please them, but instead to practice for myself and attain my own goals which were fueled by a deep yearning to achieve.               

Then, I realized that at the previous gym I was doing gymnastics for the wrong persons and working hard for the wrong reasons:to keep others happy. From then on at my new gym, I decided to start doing gymnastics, I knew it should remain a part of my world. After rekindling my love for the sport, the long days of practice filled with sweat and tears were easier to endure because I knew this sport was crucial in my life. Looking back, I realize that had I not overcome my fear of change, I would have missed out on a beneficial lesson regarding individuality and striking forth on my own. While most of us are dealing with the transition from high school to college, remember that this change will help spark a new dimension of your individual character and that change is not always detrimental, but more often than not a building block for developing a stronger mind, body, and soul. If your path requires drastic change seek this distinction with perseverance and diligence. As individual adults, the pleasing illusions of youth might forever fade away, but you must live each day with the same vigor which flourishes in the “spirit of youth.” If all of a sudden this spirit diminishes due to a wrong decision, enliven the impulsiveness of youth and journey down a new unventured path. Remember while following any path in life remain enthusiastic of youth and fiery heart, like Homer says in the Illiad, “who dies in youth and vigor dies the best.”

After finding what it is your heart burns for, keep with it and don’t let others bring you down. If you are questioned or criticized, simply perservere. This philosophy is one thing I love about ASA teachers who are supportive. They never criticize or question who you are and what you want to do. Your identity remains intact. In college, students should find a supportive environment such as the one at ASA and immerse themselves in it and continue their individual pursuits. Once in this environment, students can then feed off each others hard work and motivation which will help push them through all of the bumps in the road along their way to finding a place in society. Remember when you are discovering your new world, to choose something that. “tugs at your heart, something that’s your aspiration, something that’s your dream. You owe it to yourself.”      

As I stand here before you tonight I would like to make one thing clear… Now understand that there will be no graduation gowns, caps, or tassel’s to be turned, so if you came expecting that, do not be disappointed.  Yes, this may be somewhat of a unique graduation, but then ASA is somewhat of a unique school.  Actually, that is exactly why we chose ASA; we all had high hopes and very definite goals.  Our presence here marks the achievement of a very special goal.   For all of us this goal of graduation required diligence, perseverance, and determination.  We have all chosen ASA for different reasons; yet, we have all benefited in the same ways by our choice.  This choice is reminiscent of Robert Frost’s poem “The Road Not Taken”, where he metaphorically describes a dilemma, and I quote: 

“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, /And sorry I could not travel both / And be one traveler, long I stood / And looked down one as long I could / To where it bent in the undergrowth.” 

Every one of us for some reason or another made the decision to trek down the ASA road that was more unknown.  This school is not a typical school by any means and each of us allowed our journey to proceed on the grassier path that “wanted wear”, the ASA route. 

I must admit that within our senior class, finding a common denominator amongst every student is not an easy task.  For, the diversity and individuality of this class is what makes us an amazingly unique group.  Sure, we were all born in 1981 or 1982 and some time ago the Muppet babies were our heroes.  And yeah, we all once liked to play Candy Land and Chutes And Ladders; girls we liked to play with our Cabbage Patch Kids, while you boys were busy tearing apart your transformers.  But, sometime after our slap bracelets were taken away because they were dangerous, we stopped buying into these fads and began blossoming into individuals.  Like any other school this senior class has all sorts of different kinds of people; the only difference is each clique here at ASA consists of one person…YOU.  

Now, within my own clique, I like to refer to myself as a questioner.  Even as a child I could not simply accept any answer, hence “why” has always been my favorite word.  I vividly remember always asking my grandma, Millie, why she constantly bestowed complements upon everyone she encountered.  From the bank teller to the beautician, her complements have always been heartfelt.  Her response to me is, “A smile is a curve that sets a lot of things straight.”  For me, that was the greatest response.  From that, inquisitiveness became my driving force.  This questioning characteristic navigates me towards my achievements, and my willful integrity is the fuel that ignites my audacity to explore any realm.  However, I cannot continue to give myself full credit for my accomplishments.  For, the spirit that shines here with me tonight is the aura that belongs to my Mimi.  Radiantly and energetically in 1926 she too stood in front of her graduating class and delivered her Valedictorian speech.  I know that she is not physically here with me tonight, but I am keenly aware that a part of her flourishes within me.  However, I am fortunate that I am able to share this special evening with my Poppy.  With that same appreciation, I recognize how my parents never trivialized my eternal quest for a balanced development.  Instead, they always offer enthusiasm and insight into both my wants and needs.  My sister, Rochelle, and my little bro, Stephen, also definitely deserve gratitude.  They have always kept my life entertaining, and together we all gave my parents many headaches.  I feel so fortunate that my family does not only include immediate family.  My extended family consists of my amazing friends.  Whatever nickname we choose, whether it is TNS, or The Girl’s my sistas have provided me with the greatest memories and lessons, but most of all we accumulated our unique unit.   We always told each other that we are going to look back on all the times we cried and laugh, but now that separation is approaching, we are finding that we are actually more susceptible to cry at the times we once laughed.  Together we have experienced a labyrinth of emotions, and believe me we left non-unsaid. 

And with that, I can say that each of us here tonight appreciates the efforts made by others to help us achieve our graduation goal.  Indeed, each of us has been plagued with some degree of senioritis, yet as Maggie prayed for an elixir, Pam, Sandy, and all the other teachers continued to keep our workload furiously focused.  However, we still took every necessary stride towards this graduation day, even though it was so difficult to concentrate and hold onto our attention during all of this excitement.   

And now, in the midst of all the excitement, we are experiencing mixed feelings.  We all ponder: “Am I really ready?  Do I want to leave my friends and family?  Who is going to be my caretaker?”  This hesitancy towards the new only exists because the old is both familiar and extraordinarily comfortable.  However, realistically we are ready, we will make new friends, we will envelop ourselves in a “homey” situation, and believe it or not, we will begin to take care of ourselves.  I know this because we are all prepared. 

Every one of us should feel extremely fortunate for the quality education we have received.  School was never a bore, not only did we learn from our teachers and counselors, but we also learned from each other.  Together, whether at school or the Taj Mahal study hall, we attained knowledge that textbooks could not provide.  We have been taught to analyze situations while tackling the predicament until insight prevails.  I now notice that even the simplest daily routines can be filled with acumen, if you are willing to not take life for face value.  For instance, driving during rush hour the other day I, amongst other drivers, sat in the car cursing at the traffic ahead of me.  But, in the carpool lane to the left of me, cars were zooming by just because they carried passengers.  At that moment I realized ASA’s successful strategy. 

This simple analogy is the key to triumph.  It is plain and simple, if we ride together we arrive at our destination quicker.  Conversely, if we want to wait for success to come to us – we will be stuck in traffic - frustrated - and very alone.  By no means would I have believed that school could enlighten me on such a universal concept, but ASA proved me wrong.  I even remember the butterflies that swarmed around my stomach while I anxiously awaited my ASA interview, but after Dave greeted me in his cowboy boots and with his laid back manner the butterflies seemed to fly away.  I have never before witnessed a school as a whole so committed to paving the road to success for each individual student.  In a sense the teachers make it difficult to fail.  Because, as a student it is so wonderful to observe teachers who sincerely care, and are dedicated to enlightening us and helping us achieve.  Consequently we are forced to do well, even though at the onset the task seemed insurmountable. 

My experience at ASA has been nothing but wonderful.  I feel that I can speak for the entire class of 2000 and acknowledge everyone’s hard work towards making this day a feasible feat.  ASA has given us the foundation we will need to succeed in the fast pace world in which we live. 

I am glad that I chose the less traveled ASA path, because as Frost noted:  “I shall be telling this with a sigh / Somewhere ages and ages hence: / Two roads diverged in a wood and I / I took the one less traveled by, / And that has made all the difference.”

THANK YOU ASA!

Distinguished guests, the honorable faculty, my fellow students, and of course, Mr. Charisma himself, David Arnold, welcome, on my behalf, to the Commencement Ceremony of the first graduating class of the New Millennium.  The leaders of the future, we the Class of 2000 are the epitome of charisma, congeniality, dedication, talent, and, of course, as seen through Dallas Garrison, hard work.  Aware of our tremendous accomplishments, we would love to take full credit for our success (which some of us will), but without giving credit to the faculty, we wouldn't be doing justice to Alexander Smith Academy.  An unparalleled environment, our school has allowed us to mature into responsible, knowledgeable young adults prepared to address the challenges of the future.

Today is a distinguished day, a day that will never return again. It is our day to celebrate our accomplishments, as we start to realize what we have achieved. However, what makes today  such a cherished day (besides the fact that you have me speaking), will be our myriad memories at ASA.  One day, we too shall reflect on our "good old days" remembering our daily antics that actually made school kind of "fun".  Never will I forget the day, when our Physics class performed a trajectory lab with moving cars in the parking lot, which by far was he most enjoyable and educational class of all time.  And I want to thank Mrs. Kennedy, who knew you  had such a great sense of humor, and I want to thank you for entrusting us with such a responsibility, but I have the feeling that lab went into history never to be repeated again.  Nor could I over look the time when Pam took us to see the play "Damn Yankees", somewhat striking to a native New Yorker like myself, but a life's worth experience nonetheless.  My friends from Room 101, which the writer George Orwell remarked as an insidious threat to society, know all too well that Pam gives meaning to literature.  And despite her daily reprimands, that I've grown to love, I can safely say I will always remember her as my friend who motivated me to reach the next level.

Words can not explain the level of individualistic talent here today.  Our unity, however, is in our ability to lead.  Today, I am a leader amongst leaders prepared to make my dream into a reality.  Thus, I must congratulate the graduates of today, who are undoubtedly prepared to become the role models of tomorrow.  First off, I must congratulate Marta on her much deserved achievement and thank her for her advice when I needed it the most.  Then there is Robyn Atlas, who showed me over the past 2 years, that even Calculus could be fun!  And I will dearly miss you Robyn, especially your comical renditions in the future.

In addition, I must bring light on future celebrities amongst us.  Ladies and Gentlemen, we have amongst us a few, who will one day become household names across the nation.  Without hesitation, I must recognize Umar Suhail, whose striving career as a boxer promises him a place in history next to none other than the one and only Peter McNeely himself.  Then we have Vernon Henry, whose classroom antics prove him to be the undisputed Drama Queen, I mean King, of the new Millennium.  And finally, our most guaranteed celeb., without a doubt, my dear friend, Eric Schmidt, shall one day make his way to the White House with his witty employment of humor and politics.  This brings me to a very important.  Ladies and Gentlemen, reflecting on the past year, I can sincerely say that there has been divine presence in getting ALL of us here today.  Come ON, after all, even Eric is present and enthusiastically ready to graduate on time.  And Eric, I think Maggie will take credit for that one...

So as we move on into the future, not only do we leave JR behind, but we leave our memories and achievements as we head forward to a new tomorrow.  Before I leave, I must thank the two most important people in my life, without whom this achievement would not be complete.  Mom/Dad, words cannot explain what you guys mean to me. I want to thank you for your gracious support through thick and thin.  You uplifted me when I was down and provided me with the courage and vision to succeed and I would feel honored to dedicate this one to you guys.  Let me reiterate: Thank you parents, Thank you teachers, Thank you ASA, for without you I could not have utilized my potential and make tomorrow what it is today.

As for the Class of 2000, I should like to say to you, who are about to embark upon your careers, that you are now guardians of a sacred heritage.  So, go forth into the world armed with courage and vision, loyal to the standards this great school has represented for many years.  May you all serve faithfully with ingenuity and the courage to embark in your own distinctive ways for only then will you leave ASA's mark on the hands of time.  I wish all of you the best of luck.  Farewell my friends; "We should live for the future and yet should find our life in the fidelities of the present."  Carpe Diem.

Thank you,

Yours Truly

I never imagined myself making this speech, but it seems that David Arnold never had any doubt.  I distinctly remember the first time I met David Arnold.  I was a below average eighth grade student desperately trying to find a school where I could fit in.  I waited nervously with my parents in the lobby and then appeared an extremely tall man wearing jeans, boots and a starched collared shirt who greeted me by saying "This is our valedictorian."  That instant faith from a stranger is great motivation for a future student.

Four years have passed since I first stepped through ASA's doors and entered into a situation that would change my life.  Throughout these four years, I have struggled to reach my goals with my family, teachers, and friends beside me each step of the way.  If I were uncertain, they would advise me; if I fell, they would lift me up; if I succeeded, they would cheer me on.

The pure strength of this school lies within the hearts of the teachers.  They were the reason that I came here each day.  I always entered this school with anticipation, never intimidation.  These teachers not only teach us the knowledge that comes from books, but also the knowledge that comes from living life.  They fulfill their roles as teachers first, yet they never neglect their roles as mentors, confidants and friends.

ASA has been an experience for all of us.  It may have been educational, spiritual, or emotional, but hopefully it was memorable.  I can honestly say that it will be difficult for me to say goodbye and leave high school because ASA has been a never weakening constant throughout my early adult life.  As a result, I am extremely confident in saying that ASA has adequately prepared me for the roads ahead, even though they are uncertain and uncharted.

I would like to dedicate my achievements to my parents who gave me the generous opportunity to attend this school.  They always believed that I possessed potential that was hidden deep within, yet they never pressured its emergence.  They have always pushed me to strive for my goals while giving me the freedom to make my own choices whether they led me to good fortune or a hard earned, humble lesson.  They have always supported each decision I made, and they never looked upon me as a child but as a person with a capable mind.

I have learned many things about myself as a result of this experience.  I have learned never to give up on myself or the ones I love, and I now know that I can accomplish anything if I am determined enough.  I am finally able to find strength within myself instead of depending on others.  I have built friendships here that will endure the test of time and I will never again have the fear of being unhappy as long as I fight for what I want in life.  The greatest gift that  ASA has given me and that can never be replaced is an outstanding education, and I will always be grateful for that.  Notable author, Dr. Seuss, summed up the thoughts I have had as I am about to start a new life.  He wrote, "You have brains in your head.  You have feet in your shoes.  You can steer yourself any direction you choose.  You're on your own.  And you know what you know.  And you are the person who will decide where to go."  I am now able to believe this statement because of my family and ASA.

Thank You

Although I'd love to give myself credit for having taken this on without a bit of help from the past, I can't.  The truth is I'm blessed to have had a million helping hands along the way.  I couldn't quite mention them all, even if I tried.  I feel really classy standing here among the ranks of the...well, I guess I can call us scholars...that I stand amongst.  There's Mr. Jacobson who I can honestly say is the most ingeniously witty person I have ever known.  I often find myself waking up, from cackling so hard the night before, my pallet sore, and my stomach overcome with laughter pains; all after a late night of hilarity with Scotty.  Without Miss Keller, our trio is not complete.  I should call her a paragon for achievement and describe her as ever capable of striving towards satisfaction.  I admire her courage in eliminating all obstacles that stand in her way.  It wouldn't shock me in the least to one day learn, that she has found her opportune and propitious happiness after promoting a band, known as the "Bouffant Staff", to the top of the charts.  Then we have Mr. Mandola, whose charming and coy way of turning a phrase has kept me reeling and whose determination and hard work in tennis have kept me cheering.  Last, but not least, is Miss King, whose inexorable strength, sheer will, and tenacity will bring her far in life.  Estella will travel to unsurpassed heights and I realize that one day I'll be able to say I knew her.  To say the least, I'm thrilled that I can stand here and say these are but a few of my colleagues at a place called Alexander Smith Academy.  Started by a man with a business mind who we encumber with the credit of creating a special world where we have recognized our potential.  This place is a high school and we call ours ASA.

What makes ASA different from the rest of the world?  The existence of our allowed individuality and each of us donates a bit of our flair to Dave's planet.  We join those who have mocked the difference and made giant steps in the directions toward the rest of their lives.  Maya Angelou, writer and poet. devoted one of her novels "to the strong black birds of promise who defy the odds and the gods and sing their songs."  We are indeed strong birds of promise who have rebelled in every direction possible, attained excellence in the most perishing of adverse possibilities and still remain exactly where our goals demand us to be.

I haven't written a book of any sort, so, I regret to say I cannot leave one to my fellow graduates.  What I can do, however, is dedicate myself to informing them just how incredible they all are.  No one can tell you enough how special you are and no one ever will.  I want to remind you convincingly of the fact that we have succeeded.  It can be said that we have found who we are.  As I stand here tonight overwhelmed with the eighteen years of memories I am forced to look back upon, I wish to thank those of you who lead us on selflessly in our battles to incorporate good-bye into our summer agenda.  I can acknowledge even in myself an inherent desire to resist change, yet, it is detrimental to our lives that we push on unheeded in our journeys to educational bliss.  And to anyone out there crying on the inside, but sustaining the biggest smile of the outside that they can manage, I revere your efforts.  This my fellow graduates is to benefit us.  This is the end of our childhood.  And suffice to say that I can understand the tears that so many of you have yet to shed, because smiling on the outside is what I have been doing all along...  

Co-Valedictorian Speech
by Alexander Almond '98

Our School. Alexander-Smith Academy. The school that has helped shape us to what we are today. Individuals. We thrive on it. The school thrives on it. This is what I appreciate about this school.

On my first visit to ASA, I experienced what probably every single one of us experienced - The Big Man. A tall man dressed in hardcore western wear proceeded to show my mother and I around the non-conventional school. He was up front and loud, yet warm and genial. "What kind of school is this?" I'm sure we all asked ourselves - AND probably more so, our parents. But the fact is, it felt right. Later, when I attended the school, I discovered that, like Dave, we are a school of individuals, all united by a common bond. That bond is the greatness of our school. RESPECT. ENCOURAGEMENT. LOVE. These things flow through all of us here at ASA. That is why I am able to say we are like a big family. All headed on separate paths. All individuals... Encouraged and striving to become better...individuals.

When I think of ASA, the first words that enter my mind are dynamic, comfortable and unique. I often recognize that ASA does not have a place for everyone when they enroll here. Instead, every person here has carved out their own place within our community. We, the students, conjure the spirit of our school. We realize how fortunate we are; few can say the same. Our school does not mold us; at ASA our personalities are nurtured and respected, our ingenuity is at once challenged and encouraged. Students here are accepted because they show promise. That promise is nourished and developed in this environment. Our brains are picked and tested daily, as are our social skills. It is my hope that years down the road, you will all look back at the time you spent at ASA and realize that your presence, words and actions all helped shape the identity of the school. We are a dynamic society here, unique in our own constituency and relationships. I'm glad to have been a part of it.